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Title: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 03, 2006, 06:58:53 pm
i like the back door a lot more!!  8)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 03, 2006, 08:29:55 pm
So you're saying you're a back door man?
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Toya on September 03, 2006, 08:30:12 pm
What is one entering/exiting per se? :o
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 03, 2006, 09:00:03 pm
So you're saying you're a back door man?

mmm, what i am saying is that when i am with a girl, i always ask her you know, to let me enter into the back door. i mean front door gets boring sometimes. back door is more interesting, more dirty , more sexy.more pleasure.

in that sense, and only in that sesnse yeah i am a back door man all the way!!

you know , and when the girl says something like, '' no i don't do that '' i say: ''good bye baby, we are not meant to be, sorry''


hey girls what do you think??
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 03, 2006, 10:00:30 pm


I think that sex without love is like eating empty calories.

As to the choice, I choose neither.  I prefer to tie him up and do the twirl around.
Kind of like Basic Instinct style except I don't stab him with an ice pick when I'm
done.  LOL!


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: The Dark Wright on September 04, 2006, 03:02:02 am
i mean front door gets boring sometimes.

I'm sorry, man,  but if the front door ever (ever, ever, ever, ever) gets "boring"... something ain't being done right. Just my opinion.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: karaszero on September 04, 2006, 04:50:40 am
Sho Nuff!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Sam Wilson on September 04, 2006, 05:20:55 am
So you're saying you're a back door man?

I'm not even going to touch this one...  :o ;D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 04, 2006, 05:25:29 am
lmaof. on the off chance that my ol lady ever breezed this site and she saw me putting her business out like that she would kick all of my ass. but this thread remind me of a comedy routine from monique.

"you gotta breath....you just gotta breath" lol
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 04, 2006, 10:35:28 am
hey i think that my second post on thios thread was a little strong, too explicit.
but thinks are made for a reason, it's good to talk about sex sometimes.
some toughts:

I think that sex without love is like eating empty calories.

like 50 cent says: ''i am into sex i'm not into making love''
sex without love can be as pleasant or even more pleasant than sex mixed with love feelings.

So you're saying you're a back door man?
I'm not even going to touch this one... :o ;D

yeah that sounds terribly gay!! back door man, i don't know, maybe it can work as the name of a supervillain??  the ''back door man''.

but on a related note, it's very interesting i'm gonna tell you some experiences, two times has happened to me that i you know in the middle of the action i asked the girls to go ''against the traffic'' as we say here, to use the back door, and they have answered me something like: ''why? are you gay or what?'' or ''if you want to do this then search a gay, not me'', i mean a lot of women seems to have strong prejudices against back door sex , while other ones really love it.

i mean front door gets boring sometimes.

I'm sorry, man, but if the front door ever (ever, ever, ever, ever) gets "boring"... something ain't being done right. Just my opinion.

i mean you are with your girl right, and after months and months of using only the front door, it can get a little boring, foremost when you have a whole entire new universe of sensations waiting in the unused back door. then of course, the front door will recover her interest, after not using it a while.
of course if the front door makes you feel boring indefinitely, then maybe something can be wrong. 


hey people sorry if some of you gets a little offended with this topic, wasn't my intention to offend anyone, just wanted to know your opinions, and most importantly, the opinions of the girls who a lot of times doesn't talk too much about this topics with boys, keeping us in ignorance. and ignorance just make things more difficult, for girls or guys.

hey, maybe a new ''sex'' section?? what do you think??
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 04, 2006, 02:00:01 pm
I'll add a "sex" section if there's enough traffic to warrant it.  Even with the relative anonymity of the internet, people often don't want to get too personal - and conversations about sex are very personal.

That said, conversations about sex are also very healthy. We already debate politics, religion and the middle east on this forum...why be scared of sex?
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Marvelous on September 04, 2006, 02:17:47 pm
That said, conversations about sex are also very healthy. We already debate politics, religion and the middle east on this forum...why be scared of sex?

Hmm, depends on if it's "front door" or "back door"?  ;)  HARD choices!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 04, 2006, 03:51:37 pm
like 50 cent says: ''i am into sex i'm not into making love''
sex without love can be as pleasant or even more pleasant than sex mixed with love feelings.

Perhaps, but I must have love with my sex to feel my multiple spontaneous simultaneous orgasms.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 04, 2006, 04:25:52 pm
remember the thread "the porn industry who and why" was one of the first threads on the old board and it had over 1k hits. man oh man do i have some stuff to offer on that subject. you know our old crusty married jokers have to keep our virtual friends lol. anyway i would support a "lets talk about sex thread"
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 04, 2006, 04:34:46 pm
check out the video of my girl buffie the body. yo turn your speakers all the way up and you will hear what sounds like an ak-47 going off. oh yea ladies of heff i am a pig. ;D but hey who can blame a brother.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvhKz0UjIXI
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Sam Wilson on September 04, 2006, 04:42:11 pm
I'll add a "sex" section if there's enough traffic to warrant it.  Even with the relative anonymity of the internet, people often don't want to get too personal - and conversations about sex are very personal.

That said, conversations about sex are also very healthy. We already debate politics, religion and the middle east on this forum...why be scared of sex?

yeah, but brah, we got enough freaks (as in PHREAKY.  Heh)  on the site as it is....  :o ;D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 04, 2006, 07:16:17 pm
wow.

just, wow.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Cheirel on September 04, 2006, 07:31:26 pm
Geez, I go vacation and the board makes a left.

There is nothing wrong with talking about sex, heck tat is basiclly how I made a living telling people when to/ how to have sex. I feel that I have an open mind but dang guys
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 04, 2006, 09:12:27 pm
remember the thread "the porn industry who and why" was one of the first threads on the old board and it had over 1k hits. man oh man do i have some stuff to offer on that subject. you know our old crusty married jokers have to keep our virtual friends lol. anyway i would support a "lets talk about sex thread"

Sex is always a killer app in any new tech, and you're right, the porn thread started by Furie really kicked this site off LOVELY. 

Of course, with HEF 2.0, the numbers on a thread like THE HUDLIN 100 can't compare to the wedding thread, for example.  And we also have a lot more ladies posting, which is great, but might be inhibiting some of the iller convos of the early days.

Of course, the ladies have a lot to say about sex (just pick up any issue of ESSENCE or COSMO) so I think a thread like this could offer a lot to everybody. 

Now...back to the subject at hand...
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 05, 2006, 12:11:35 pm
check out the video of my girl buffie the body. yo turn your speakers all the way up and you will hear what sounds like an ak-47 going off. oh yea ladies of heff i am a pig. ;D but hey who can blame a brother.



[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvhKz0UjIXI[/url]



wow!!!!  that was a little scary !!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 05, 2006, 12:38:21 pm
don't be scurred. :D could you imagin running up to ol girl kicking some game about what you can do later on and then she let's loose with that. damn. when i was a kid we used to have a toy that was like ballon with a string and you would bounce the balloon back and forth real fast. wack toy but she has two of them. lol. i know i know im such a pig. :D

ps: we have hundreds of women built like that in the south. something about the cornbread and collard greens. 8)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: karaszero on September 05, 2006, 03:33:23 pm
Now I know wht the Term slapping cakes means! ;D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 05, 2006, 05:43:06 pm
So you're saying you're a back door man?

mmm, what i am saying is that when i am with a girl, i always ask her you know, to let me enter into the back door. i mean front door gets boring sometimes. back door is more interesting, more dirty , more sexy.more pleasure.

in that sense, and only in that sesnse yeah i am a back door man all the way!!

you know , and when the girl says something like, '' no i don't do that '' i say: ''good bye baby, we are not meant to be, sorry''


hey girls what do you think??

if I may quote what Redjack post:

WOW.... once again....... JUST WOW!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 05, 2006, 05:44:40 pm
lmaof. on the off chance that my ol lady ever breezed this site and she saw me putting her business out like that she would kick all of my ass.



AMEN
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 05, 2006, 05:52:38 pm
ps: we have hundreds of women built like that in the south. something about the cornbread and collard greens. 8)

Okay.  And what does cornbread and collard greens do for a man??


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 05, 2006, 05:57:07 pm
ps: we have hundreds of women built like that in the south. something about the cornbread and collard greens. 8)

Okay.  And what does cornbread and collard greens do for a man??




one thing it does is give a person (men & women) GAS!   ;)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 05, 2006, 06:16:33 pm
ps: we have hundreds of women built like that in the south. something about the cornbread and collard greens. 8)

Okay.  And what does cornbread and collard greens do for a man??



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the "itas" makes you real sleepy and full and content. for some strange reason you want to sit in front of the tv with a toothpick in your mouth rubbing your stomach with a satisfied look on your face. lol :D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 05, 2006, 06:21:03 pm


What-Ever!!! (Damn Liars!!!)  ::)


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 05, 2006, 06:23:26 pm
cornbread and greens gives women that T&A (slang talk)  just BS talk from the hood.  just like how women say about a man w/ big feet has....... off the subject but I will stop here
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 05, 2006, 06:37:10 pm


That whole feet thing is just a myth.  An old wive's tale.  There is a much more precise
method of foretelling a man's sexual prowess. 


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 05, 2006, 06:39:20 pm


That whole feet thing is just a myth.  An old wive's tale.  There is a much more precise
method of foretelling a man's sexual prowess. 




this is why I wrote slang talk, BS talk from the hood. 
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 05, 2006, 07:20:44 pm


That whole feet thing is just a myth.  An old wive's tale.  There is a much more precise
method of foretelling a man's sexual prowess. 




You can't stop now.  The method is.....?
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 05, 2006, 07:33:31 pm
hey people, that woman from the video is so out of my league yo.
i'm sure i couldn't make her feel nothing, not even ticklings !!

i suppose my league is girls like paris hilton or nicol richie ( i mean in body build).
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 05, 2006, 08:31:09 pm
You can't stop now.  The method is.....?

I'd tell you just about anything, but that is a closely guarded secret.   I can only say
that there are specific mannerisms and physical attributes that are 99.99% accurate
in ascertaining a man's savoir faire in love-making.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 05, 2006, 10:08:37 pm
hey people, that woman from the video is so out of my league yo.
i'm sure i couldn't make her feel nothing, not even ticklings !!

i suppose my league is girls like paris hilton or nicol richie ( i mean in body build).

I love the honesty. Keep keeping it real.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 05, 2006, 10:09:22 pm
You can't stop now.  The method is.....?

I'd tell you just about anything, but that is a closely guarded secret.   I can only say
that there are specific mannerisms and physical attributes that are 99.99% accurate
in ascertaining a man's savoir faire in love-making.




Closely guarded secret?  What does that mean?  Why? 
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 05, 2006, 10:27:06 pm
Closely guarded secret?  What does that mean?  Why? 

It's closely guarded because it's not common knowledge.  It's a woman thing and you're
a man and so you don't have a need to know anyway.  In other words, I'm not telling it!


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 06, 2006, 02:20:12 am
She's messing with you.

They don't know any more than we do.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 06, 2006, 03:26:48 am
She's messing with you.

They don't know any more than we do.

Mr. RedJack - You can believe whatever you want but please bear in mind that women use both sides of
our brain while you men only utilize one.  Plus we have the added benefit of our women's intuition. There
exists a proven technique of discerning a human male's virility.  But I'm not divulging any trade secrets at
this time so you'll just have to trust me.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 06, 2006, 05:57:06 am
"Trade secrets"?  What kind of business are you in?
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 06, 2006, 07:39:44 am
"Trade secrets"?  What kind of business are you in?

Mustn't hurt your boardies feelings.   :'(

That's just an expression.  But I'm a merchant.  I sell furniture online via eBay, OverStock,
Amazon and my Yahoo Store.  And I'm an interior designer.  I pimp furniture, not p*$$y.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 06, 2006, 07:43:57 am
"Trade secrets"?  What kind of business are you in?

Mustn't hurt your boardies feelings.   :'(

That's just an expression.  But I'm a merchant.  I sell furniture online via eBay, OverStock,
Amazon and my Yahoo Store.  And I'm an interior designer.  I pimp furniture, not p*$$y.



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lol  :D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Lion on September 06, 2006, 07:50:41 am
"Trade secrets"?  What kind of business are you in?

Mustn't hurt your boardies feelings.   :'(

That's just an expression.  But I'm a merchant.  I sell furniture online via eBay, OverStock,
Amazon and my Yahoo Store.  And I'm an interior designer.  I pimp furniture, not p*$$y.



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lol :D

And THAT, my friends, is the line of the day. I personally think Kami should have it as her signature.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Reginald Hudlin on September 06, 2006, 08:13:23 am
For real tho.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 06, 2006, 09:50:29 am
She's messing with you.

They don't know any more than we do.

Mr. RedJack - You can believe whatever you want but please bear in mind that women use both sides of
our brain while you men only utilize one.  Plus we have the added benefit of our women's intuition. There
exists a proven technique of discerning a human male's virility.  But I'm not divulging any trade secrets at
this time so you'll just have to trust me.




I can't tell if you're joking or not. But I only really use about an eighth of my brain so that may be the reason.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 06, 2006, 03:08:51 pm
i have two brains that compete with each other as far as whos in charge. luckily the one between my shoulders ususally wins out.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 06, 2006, 07:18:39 pm
i have two brains that compete with each other as far as whos in charge. luckily the one between my shoulders ususally wins out.

Can this brain detect a hottie?  Not just an attractive hottie, but an extra freaky hottie?  Someone
that's insatiable, that wants to fulfill all of your sexual desires, that doesn't have a bunch of boring
sexual hangups and inhibitions.  Without her being obvious about it.  And before you have actual
carnal knowledge of her.  Could you pick a hottie such as this out of a crowd?  Do gentlemen have
a foolproof system of detection?


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 06, 2006, 08:31:48 pm
i have two brains that compete with each other as far as whos in charge. luckily the one between my shoulders ususally wins out.

Can this brain detect a hottie?  Not just an attractive hottie, but an extra freaky hottie?  Someone
that's insatiable, that wants to fulfill all of your sexual desires, that doesn't have a bunch of boring
sexual hangups and inhibitions.  Without her being obvious about it.  And before you have actual
carnal knowledge of her.  Could you pick a hottie such as this out of a crowd?  Do gentlemen have
a foolproof system of detection?


sometimes you notice it in the face.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Cheirel on September 06, 2006, 09:35:09 pm
She's messing with you.

They don't know any more than we do.

Mr. RedJack - You can believe whatever you want but please bear in mind that women use both sides of
our brain while you men only utilize one.  Plus we have the added benefit of our women's intuition. There
exists a proven technique of discerning a human male's virility.  But I'm not divulging any trade secrets at
this time so you'll just have to trust me.




I'm going to have to back my girl Kami  ;)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 07, 2006, 12:02:57 am
I'm going to have to back my girl Kami  ;)

Thank you GirlFriend - but I needed you last night when BigPoppa was on my case.  LOL!


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 07, 2006, 12:38:50 am
Hmmm.

Still can't tell. I'm going to assume joke.

me not smart.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: karaszero on September 07, 2006, 01:58:08 am
Heck yeah, you can tell a girl who was turned out Neither Men or Women have a LOCK  on one another remember there are PLAYERS on both sides if you have been with a freak a time or two you KNOW when you come across another one!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 07, 2006, 06:28:26 am
i have two brains that compete with each other as far as whos in charge. luckily the one between my shoulders ususally wins out.

Can this brain detect a hottie?  Not just an attractive hottie, but an extra freaky hottie?  Someone
that's insatiable, that wants to fulfill all of your sexual desires, that doesn't have a bunch of boring
sexual hangups and inhibitions.  Without her being obvious about it.  And before you have actual
carnal knowledge of her.  Could you pick a hottie such as this out of a crowd?  Do gentlemen have
a foolproof system of detection?



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most of the time i am oblivious to women checking me out. i am very cerebral. im thinking about something all of the time so i will usually miss things or walk into a room and have to be reminded to speak to someone. well on the occasions i notice a women checking me out, it's all in the eye contact. women by nature won't give a man they are not comfortable with eye contact, so when they do you know something is up. if you are at a department store, the bank or in a meeting at work, women if they are scoping you will give you this deep eye contact with a slight smirk on their face. the ones who will throw in double untangres (sp) :) will really tip you off. how out there they are with it will let you know if they are a freak, conservative, out there or just ordinary. if they do the dumb blond giggle then thats a sign. yeasterday for work i had an interview and i wore my tie, white pressed shirt with suspenders, the women were almost falling over themselves all day. :D . my secret dress down so when i do get so fresh and so clean on them they lose it. true talk. 8)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 07, 2006, 06:42:51 am
i have two brains that compete with each other as far as whos in charge. luckily the one between my shoulders ususally wins out.

Can this brain detect a hottie?  Not just an attractive hottie, but an extra freaky hottie?  Someone
that's insatiable, that wants to fulfill all of your sexual desires, that doesn't have a bunch of boring
sexual hangups and inhibitions.  Without her being obvious about it.  And before you have actual
carnal knowledge of her.  Could you pick a hottie such as this out of a crowd?  Do gentlemen have
a foolproof system of detection?



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most of the time i am oblivious to women checking me out. i am very cerebral. im thinking about something all of the time so i will usually miss things or walk into a room and have to be reminded to speak to someone. well on the occasions i notice a women checking me out, it's all in the eye contact. women by nature won't give a man they are not comfortable with eye contact, so when they do you know something is up. if you are at a department store, the bank or in a meeting at work, women if they are scoping you will give you this deep eye contact with a slight smirk on their face. the ones who will throw in double untangres (sp) :) will really tip you off. how out there they are with it will let you know if they are a freak, conservative, out there or just ordinary. if they do the dumb blond giggle then thats a sign. yeasterday for work i had an interview and i wore my tie, white pressed shirt with suspenders, the women were almost falling over themselves all day. :D . my secret dress down so when i do get so fresh and so clean on them they lose it. true talk. 8)

brotha man is patting you on the back and giving you some dap!  open house and grocery store are also places where women has taken a double take on me.  As much as I take a look at attractive women, from the front door and back door (not in a sexual act, just lookin from head to toe)  women are cleavier in their acts in looking at men vs men looking at women in public. 
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 07, 2006, 07:03:45 pm
most of the time i am oblivious to women checking me out. i am very cerebral. im thinking about something all of the time so i will usually miss things or walk into a room and have to be reminded to speak to someone. well on the occasions i notice a women checking me out, it's all in the eye contact. women by nature won't give a man they are not comfortable with eye contact, so when they do you know something is up. if you are at a department store, the bank or in a meeting at work, women if they are scoping you will give you this deep eye contact with a slight smirk on their face. the ones who will throw in double untangres (sp) :) will really tip you off. how out there they are with it will let you know if they are a freak, conservative, out there or just ordinary. if they do the dumb blond giggle then thats a sign. yeasterday for work i had an interview and i wore my tie, white pressed shirt with suspenders, the women were almost falling over themselves all day. :D . my secret dress down so when i do get so fresh and so clean on them they lose it. true talk. 8)

Suspenders huh?  What I was asking was whether you could spot a freak if she was
discreet about it.  So if you're looking for obvious clues then I will take that as a no.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 07, 2006, 07:12:21 pm
brotha man is patting you on the back and giving you some dap!  open house and grocery store are also places where women has taken a double take on me.  As much as I take a look at attractive women, from the front door and back door (not in a sexual act, just lookin from head to toe)  women are cleavier in their acts in looking at men vs men looking at women in public. 

Spill it Mr. Barbecue Man.  I know you've got a story to tell.  LOL!!!  Yes, women are cunning when
it comes to doing an inventory.  I heard that we supposedly decide whether we're going to have an
assignation with a man within 0.5 seconds of meeting him.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Lion on September 07, 2006, 08:55:09 pm
Odd... They don't even wait to meet me. They go running before I even get in the room. Well... unless they're psycho. Then I'm the one who is running. Had a woman make a pass at me telling me that she was going to kidnap me and take me away... right in front of my mother. It took months for me to convince her that I wasn't interested.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 07, 2006, 09:55:21 pm
Quote
I heard that we supposedly decide whether we're going to have an
assignation with a man within 0.5 seconds of meeting him.

That I agree with. Lots of guys think they have game without realizing the woman has decided most of the outcome of his approach before he starts talking.

But this whole, "she's a freak/he's a freak" thing is a little infantile. Nobody is the same way in bed with every person they hit the sheets with. Some girls are aggressive some boys are quiet and methodical. Some like a long slow lazy private thing, some like it fast and hard in a public place. And none of it is fixed unless you have a true psychological fetish. I've been fond of both those approaches, depending on the girl and the mood. And a lot of others as well. As, I'm sure, have many adults.

The real problem is that society tells us that there is some fundamental difference between men and women and our desires for sex and what we should do about it. Girls are just as hungry as we are and just as varied in how they get what they want. One of the great pleasures of my life was when, for a couple of years, I had more female friends than male and got a nice taste of the the dance from their side.

Aside from differences in approach (and not as many of those as you'd think) they were pretty much like the fellas I ran with. Hungry and ruthless.

But this idea that any person's "game" can be pegged by non-sexual social cues is ludicrous. Not unless you're including flirting as non-sexual.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Rollo_Tomasi on September 07, 2006, 10:54:25 pm
That said, conversations about sex are also very healthy. We already debate politics, religion and the middle east on this forum...why be scared of sex?
...paralyzing fear of the thread that will combine all four subjects? Just sayin'.  ;)

I can see it now: Israeli jets bomb "massage parlor" in Lebanon, 3 transsexual "masseuses" detained under suspicion of ties to Hezbollah.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 07, 2006, 10:55:24 pm
That I agree with. Lots of guys think they have game without realizing the woman has decided most of the outcome of his approach before he starts talking.

But this whole, "she's a freak/he's a freak" thing is a little infantile. Nobody is the same way in bed with every person they hit the sheets with. Some girls are aggressive some boys are quiet and methodical. Some like a long slow lazy private thing, some like it fast and hard in a public place. And none of it is fixed unless you have a true psychological fetish. I've been fond of both those approaches, depending on the girl and the mood. And a lot of others as well. As, I'm sure, have many adults.

The real problem is that society tells us that there is some fundamental difference between men and women and our desires for sex and what we should do about it. Girls are just as hungry as we are and just as varied in how they get what they want. One of the great pleasures of my life was when, for a couple of years, I had more female friends than male and got a nice taste of the the dance from their side.

Aside from differences in approach (and not as many of those as you'd think) they were pretty much like the fellas I ran with. Hungry and ruthless.

But this idea that any person's "game" can be pegged by non-sexual social cues is ludicrous. Not unless you're including flirting as non-sexual.

It's true that both men and women can have strong sexual desires and tendencies, but it's the female who
regulates/controls what happens (the freakiness level of the encounter) in the bedroom (kitchen, bathtub,
car, or wherever).  The man could stand on his head and do backflips but nothing will transpire unless she
wants it to.  Making demands or forcing things on a woman does not work.  Once engaged, she might be
a total freak but she's just not going to be one with him, because she might not want him to know, lose
his respect, she doesn't trust him, kids in the next room, etc. 

Anyway, I never said I could peg anyone's game, but that I can detect the sexual prowess of a man.  This
knowledge is useful for a number of reasons.  As to the use of the term, I use it because I can't think of a
better word to describe a person who has no sexual boundaries/inhibitions.  I really don't know much about
that though, because I am definitely not a freak.  But a friend of a friend of a friend of mine is a total freak
and I heard all about it from her.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 07, 2006, 11:41:20 pm
Look. I'm sorry but that's crap.

If it was true, and you have discovered something that no one in a hundred thousand years of human evolutiuon has ever pegged,  you should write a book and make yourself a millionaire or do the Tony Robin's guru thing. Hell, even if it's not true, you could still make the millions. Women all over the world would be flocking to your door. Provided your technique was solid.

I'm very married now but when I was in the game I played hard.

When someone was pursuing me, I regulated what happened when. I've literally had to set girls down and make them take a time out because I wasn't interested at that moment. When I was chasing, she, of course, had more control and I'd have to sometimes slow my roll. When it was absolutely mutual, it was mutual- clothes flying, firetrucks, SWAT teams, balloons, chilli fries etc. *though generally not as much depth in those encounters as I prefer. More like an incredibly tasty snack than a fulfilling meal.*

"Sexual prowess" meaning what? Technique? Staying power? Girth? Length? Flexibility? Creativiity? Props? All of these are too subjective and variable. The guy you think is crap might ring the bells for your friend. And vice verse. The guy you want to ride till the wheels fall off might bore the pants back on to your friend.

Trust me, it takes all kinds and one size does not fit all from either side of the pool. Even in the shallow end.

Even "freakiness" is relative. There isn't a lot that would surprise me or put me off but I know there are people with more lines. And there are folks with fewer. There's no formula for sex. You work that out with your partner. That's the fun.

(I suggest everyone present actually READ the Kama Sutra. There's some great info in there and not just about positions.)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 08, 2006, 12:05:38 am


LOL.  Actually, I'm a Kama Sutra person.  The COMPLETE Kama Sutra.  I posted about it on
the other forum before it crashed.  Listen, I'm not going to argue with you about who shot
John.  I know what works for me, you know what works for you, and I don't give a care
about what you believe.  So drive on, do your thing and have a great night.  And thanks
for the 411 on how to make some money, I was just racking my brain trying to figure that
out.  So I appreciate it.  And my friends do too.    :)


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: karaszero on September 08, 2006, 04:23:39 am
I agree with you redjack sexual liasons when playing the field may begin with a power struggle but if the relationship lasts beyond the first encounter or two the dynamics of the relationship shifts and what began as sexual conquest could become a job in other words sex is used as a means to an end it is still pleasurable but it isn't about the NUT 
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 08, 2006, 08:19:42 am
most of the time i am oblivious to women checking me out. i am very cerebral. im thinking about something all of the time so i will usually miss things or walk into a room and have to be reminded to speak to someone. well on the occasions i notice a women checking me out, it's all in the eye contact. women by nature won't give a man they are not comfortable with eye contact, so when they do you know something is up. if you are at a department store, the bank or in a meeting at work, women if they are scoping you will give you this deep eye contact with a slight smirk on their face. the ones who will throw in double untangres (sp) :) will really tip you off. how out there they are with it will let you know if they are a freak, conservative, out there or just ordinary. if they do the dumb blond giggle then thats a sign. yeasterday for work i had an interview and i wore my tie, white pressed shirt with suspenders, the women were almost falling over themselves all day. :D . my secret dress down so when i do get so fresh and so clean on them they lose it. true talk. 8)

Suspenders huh?  What I was asking was whether you could spot a freak if she was
discreet about it.  So if you're looking for obvious clues then I will take that as a no.



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umm i said eye contact. add a little smirk or flirty laughter with that. most women avoid eye contact so if you get one who will gaze into you then you know something is there. now if the freak is staring you from across the bar with a cherry in her mouth then i guess you really know but how many times have that happen to us? once, twice maybe?

oh what you are looking for is myths like if she is bow legged or something? ::)

see this is the thing. a man who can do his thing can bring the freak out of a woman. you lay it down right you can have a woman willing to do anything to you and allow you to do anything to her. 8)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 08, 2006, 10:01:13 am
umm i said eye contact. add a little smirk or flirty laughter with that. most women avoid eye contact so if you get one who will gaze into you then you know something is there. now if the freak is staring you from across the bar with a cherry in her mouth then i guess you really know but how many times have that happen to us? once, twice maybe?

oh what you are looking for is myths like if she is bow legged or something? ::)

see this is the thing. a man who can do his thing can bring the freak out of a woman. you lay it down right you can have a woman willing to do anything to you and allow you to do anything to her. 8)

The correct answer is that she must be bow-legged AND pigeon-toed. 

Blue I think you're right about a man bringing the freak out of a woman.  My asking was pure
curiosity.  I was questioning if there's some secret men's society or lodge that passes wisdom
about women thru the ages.  Like when a father tells his first born "Now Son if you fold her up
like a pretzel then turn her to the right and stroke it from the left she will never ever leave you." 
Could men spot one coming down the street before they make any contact at all.  Would a man
look for the mild-mannered mousy type who seems perfectly content or would he think it's the
va-va-voom bombshell with all that pep in her step.  I was just wondering, that's all.




Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: bluezulu on September 08, 2006, 10:33:51 am
well when i was younger and definatly before the cock blocker ahem.. i mean my son came along i was able to do all and get all down with it. the minute i think the coast is clear and grab a tit or ass, the crumb snatcher wakes up. now as parents of a two year old who work all day and then come home and work chasing him around it puts a damper in things. but to answere your questions unfortunatly most of what we learn as men come from the streets and cinimax after dark. it took the first "steady" girlfriend before you learn what the hell you are doing. so ironicly enough most of what a man learns or don't learn about the fine art of love making comes from women. so it took a lady to tell me what or where a g spot is and the joys of ice and oils and lotions also the fact that yes women do want you to "hit it hard" as well as "be all kind and gentle" ahh the good ol days, now a brother barely has enough time to get a quick session in and go to damn sleep. :(
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Cheirel on September 08, 2006, 10:42:50 am
Men are funny as heck when it comes to sex. The big gamers i.e. Red like to think they know us women how hold off at arms length. Way back in the cave days when I was single(of course I read about this stuff ) men like that were always the funniest to me. Then there were the shy guys who never gave themselves enough credit.
Bottom line women hold the cards as to how things are going to go down.

Since we are doing things for edification I have a few questions?
starting with why do men always cry after sex? Threesomes so how many of you guys are letting another guy in the bed?
 Suddenly I can hear a pin drop...I can go on and on
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 08, 2006, 10:59:51 am
Men are funny as heck when it comes to sex. The big gamers i.e. Red like to think they know us women how hold off at arms length. Way back in the cave days when I was single(of course I read about this stuff ) men like that were always the funniest to me. Then there were the shy guys who never gave themselves enough credit.
Bottom line women hold the cards as to how things are going to go down.

Since we are doing things for edification I have a few questions?
starting with why do men always cry after sex? Threesomes so how many of you guys are letting another guy in the bed?
 Suddenly I can hear a pin drop...I can go on and on

Damn Girl!  You have them crying after sex?  They only cry for me when I kick them to the curb.  What the
hell are you doing to their asses?  I am sooooo envious of you.  Got damn!!!

And on the ménage à trois - I don't know this first-hand, but a friend of a friend of a friend of mine says that
it's damn near impossible to get another man in there.  Guys think it could be misconstrued as gayness.  But
isn't that most women's fantasy?  To be with two men at once.  We could be doing things to the one while
the other is doing things to us.  Correction - doing things to my friend of a friend.  But they'll only let us bring
in another woman.  What's up with that?  Men are so doggone insecure and selfish, aren't they?   ::)


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Cheirel on September 08, 2006, 11:04:14 am
Kami, when I was talking with that friend of friend that is the whole point is to break them down enough to bring in second guy ;). They all say no, no, HELL NO, but I hear you play the right cards they start with well maybe, then ok, then they will start begging you. ;D
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: KamiKaZee on September 08, 2006, 12:02:48 pm


Alright you HEFfa men!  Next time you and your woman are planning the ménage à trois,
please don't bring in your ex-wife, ex-girlfriend or the hooker you met at the club.  Please
please please let your woman invite another man whom she finds intellectually stimulating.


Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 08, 2006, 01:17:47 pm
Men are funny as heck when it comes to sex. The big gamers i.e. Red like to think they know us women how hold off at arms length.

I don't believe in games. I only beleive in what's real. When I was single, if I felt like somebody was playing games with me (as opposed to flriting and having fun with wanting to get at each other) I moved on. No time for that crap. Both people generally know what they want from each other in my experience. it's got nothing to do with the woman (or the man) regulating anything. It's not cut and dried like that.

Most people REALLY like sex and it doesn't have a damned thing to do with which gender they are. They like it and the pretty much go after it the same way. All that gamey crap is just that. Crap.

Are you really going to raise up your daughters to believe that there's a secret trigger to udnerstanding in advance how "a" man is in bed or what all men are like one way or another? Good luck. And good luck to her. She'll need it.

When people start talking about secret handshakes and games and "bringing the freak out" in somebody, I just think they're haven't been at it very long. Which is cool. Everybody has to start somewhere.

Sex is about the people, the individuals, doing it. There is no formula for that and anyone who claims otherwise has no idea what they're talking about. And they're in for some fairly shallow sexual experiences.

There's no "all men are" and there's no "all women are" when it comes to sex. Sorry. That's an adolescent idea of grown up behavior.

And, just for the record: I've never kept anything or anyone I've wanted at "arms length."

Nice try though.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Cheirel on September 08, 2006, 02:16:29 pm
Men are funny as heck when it comes to sex. The big gamers i.e. Red like to think they know us women how hold off at arms length.

I don't believe in games. I only beleive in what's real. When I was single, if I felt like somebody was playing games with me (as opposed to flriting and having fun with wanting to get at each other) I moved on. No time for that crap. Both people generally know what they want from each other in my experience. it's got nothing to do with the woman (or the man) regulating anything. It's not cut and dried like that.
Life is a game in one way or another. Of course you are very grown up, you brought up your early days I would have just left off as happily married. There is always a position of power in everything don't be foolish.Sex, relationships are no different for example I'm avery obedient wife.
Most people REALLY like sex and it doesn't have a damned thing to do with which gender they are. They like it and the pretty much go after it the same way. All that gamey crap is just that. Crap.

At which point did I imply otherwise?

Are you really going to raise up your daughters to believe that there's a secret trigger to udnerstanding in advance how "a" man is in bed or what all men are like one way or another? Good luck. And good luck to her. She'll need it.
MY DAUGHTER? what the f*ck? She gets into a sex convo how? Now that could make me stoop to a low side and start saying some rather nasty things about aman who would want to bring a child into such banter.
When people start talking about secret handshakes and games and "bringing the freak out" in somebody, I just think they're haven't been at it very long. Which is cool. Everybody has to start somewhere.

Sex is about the people, the individuals, doing it. There is no formula for that and anyone who claims otherwise has no idea what they're talking about. And they're in for some fairly shallow sexual experiences.

There's no "all men are" and there's no "all women are" when it comes to sex. Sorry. That's an adolescent idea of grown up behavior.

And, just for the record: I've never kept anything or anyone I've wanted at "arms length."

So you were okay with the threesome? Cool most men don't admit it so openly.
Nice try though.

Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 08, 2006, 02:51:39 pm
Why stop at three?


And, no, not everything is about power games. A lot of things are just about fun.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 08, 2006, 08:00:56 pm
hey people!! less discussions about human relationships, more discussions about BACK DOORS !!!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: David Yardin on September 08, 2006, 09:21:00 pm
hey people!! less discussions about human relationships, more discussions about BACK DOORS !!!


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Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: Redjack on September 08, 2006, 11:32:29 pm
hey people!! less discussions about human relationships, more discussions about BACK DOORS !!!

Lots of foreplay and take your time. Surprises are unwelcome.
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: CIENCIANO on September 09, 2006, 03:19:27 pm
hey people!! less discussions about human relationships, more discussions about BACK DOORS !!!

Lots of foreplay and take your time. Surprises are unwelcome.

a lot of people think that back door is synonime of unwelcome surprises, but for example, in porn, it never happens, the woman must take her precautions before the session.

and foreplay include  :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* there!!!
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 09, 2006, 06:36:58 pm


Alright you HEFfa men!  Next time you and your woman are planning the ménage à trois,
please don't bring in your ex-wife, ex-girlfriend or the hooker you met at the club.  Please
please please let your woman invite another man whom she finds intellectually stimulating.




menage a trois aint my cup a tea.  NAW no planning or even the damn blueprints being sketched from ova here.  one on one (man & woman) is the way for me  ;)
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: zulu801 on September 09, 2006, 06:45:00 pm
brotha man is patting you on the back and giving you some dap!  open house and grocery store are also places where women has taken a double take on me.  As much as I take a look at attractive women, from the front door and back door (not in a sexual act, just lookin from head to toe)  women are cleavier in their acts in looking at men vs men looking at women in public. 

Spill it Mr. Barbecue Man.  I know you've got a story to tell.  LOL!!!  Yes, women are cunning when
it comes to doing an inventory.  I heard that we supposedly decide whether we're going to have an
assignation with a man within 0.5 seconds of meeting him.




thanks for the title "Mr BBQman"  LOL!!!  (for others that do not know what me and K are talking about, it was a situation I posted on old HEF)  But I tell you this much....  SEE ENJOYED THE BACK DOOR    ;D 
Title: Re: HARD CHOICES, FRONT DOOR OR BACK DOOR???
Post by: supreme illuminati on December 01, 2006, 05:42:28 pm


I think that sex without love is like eating empty calories.

As to the choice, I choose neither.  I prefer to tie him up and do the twirl around.
Kind of like Basic Instinct style except I don't stab him with an ice pick when I'm
done.  LOL!




hahaha!1 I love you!1 But  i dig them empty calories peridocially,nah mean? rofl!!