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Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« on: August 04, 2012, 09:33:28 AM »
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Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
Aug 4, 2012 8:52 AM EDT
In a new book, comedian D.L. Hughley says Obama needs to demand his opponents' respect, and learn that doing the "right thing" sometimes gets you nowhere. He talks to Allison Samuels

Comedian D.L. Hughley says he has great affinity for the current president of the United States, Barack Obama. The 49-year-old television star, talk-show host, and now author believes Obama’s introduction of the Affordable Care Act was one of the most crucial bills passed by a president during his lifetime. But it’s not all love between Hughley and Obama, as the comic explains in his new book, I Want You to Shut the F#ck Up: How the Audacity of Dopes Is Ruining America. The former host of CNN's D.L Hughley Breaks the News holds little back as he uses humor and savvy to describe the impact of the first African-American president, Tea Party tactics, and exactly how President Obama should and could have stopped the right-wing push-back before it ever began.

     
You have a lot of interesting observations about Barack Obama as president in your new book, but what did you think of him when he first came on the scene?

I’m always fascinated by anyone who is unknown but already has a book about their own life for you to read. You have to love the person who controls the narrative before it even begins, and that’s what Obama did with Dreams From My Father. I was interested in him from that standpoint very early on because that’s a smart dude.

In the book you compare President Obama to the character Carlton Banks from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Carlton was Will Smith’s nerdy and slightly corny cousin. How does that fit with Obama?

I just meant the president was fortunate enough to grow up in a world early on where he could believe that everything was all good and life was fair and wonderful if you did the right things. That’s how Obama was raised by his family in Hawaii and I get that. But part of me resents that because I’m a black man too and I didn’t grow up in that kind of world. I couldn’t grow up thinking everything would be OK because it wasn’t for a lot of people I knew.

How has his "it’s all good" worldview impacted the Obama presidency for better or for worse from your standpoint?

I think he was surprised that the right wing would actually let this country fall apart just to get the black guy out of office. I don’t think he realized how we as a country have not gotten that far race-wise. White people are cool with black people at work, living in the neighborhood and having a few as friends. But let someone black marry their daughter or let a black man run the free world and you see the real feelings. I think Obama thought everyone would come together for the good of the country. He believed that people are basically patriotic. They are until there’s a black head of state.


Comedian D.L. Hughley performs at The Ice House Comedy Club on May 31, 2012 in Pasadena, California. (Michael Schwartz / Getty Images)

He believed that people are basically patriotic. They are until there’s a black head of state.
You give funny details about being bullied in school as a child by a kid named Bubba Rankin and how you’re sure Obama wasn’t bullied as a kid because of the way he’s handled those who have opposed him. You really feel our president has allowed himself to be bullied by the right wing?

Absolutely. The day Rep. Joe Wilson yelled out "you lie" while President Obama was speaking to congress defined his presidency as far as I’m concerned. Obama not addressing that situation gave a pass to people to keep disrespecting him. Had he just said, "You don’t have to respect me but you will respect this office," and then said, "Guards, remove him," a lot of things would be different now. Incidents like that show you he wasn’t raised by a black father because a black father would have taught him that you can’t let someone disrespect you but one time. You let someone take your lunch from you that one time without doing anything and they’ll be eating your lunch the rest of your life. That incident made it clear to me that he was raised by his grandparents from Kansas.

Do you think Obama will be more forceful in the way you’d like if he is reelected for a second term? Many African Americans feel he’ll fight harder for minority issues during his second term simply because he won’t have to worry about being reelected.

No, I don’t feel that way at all. He is who he is and that’s not going to change. He’s a diplomatic guy who feels things should be done in a certain way and handled with a certain amount of intelligence and thought. I admire him for that and all but everyone doesn’t feel that way or handle themselves in that matter, which is a huge problem for him. Everyone isn’t going to fight fair or work with you because it’s the right thing to do. But Obama’s core is about doing the right thing in a certain way. I don’t see that changing but so much.

Many African Americans are critical of those who are critical of the first African-American president. Were you worried that you would get backlash from your fans for your brutally honest observations?

Not really. It’s all in the way you do it. I respect President Obama a great deal and he’s done so many good things for this country. But we all can do better and we only do better when people that care about us push us to reach our full potential. Anyone who is great is great because someone somewhere kept telling them they could do more.

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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #1 on: August 04, 2012, 09:39:15 AM »
I agree the POTUS should have told Wilson "if you don't respect me you WILL respect the office"  then continued. THAT would have defined his presidency. Of course we all are better with time to think about it...

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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #2 on: August 04, 2012, 10:11:51 AM »
I get the feeling its a damned if you do damned if you don't scenario. If he was "tougher" people would say why isn't he more diplomatic.
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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #3 on: August 04, 2012, 12:01:06 PM »
He's the first black president and he wants to be alive when he leaves office.

black people are kidding themselves and, frankly a bit stupid, if they thought he was going to behave in any other way than he has.

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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #4 on: September 04, 2012, 09:51:37 PM »
To be a fly on the wall after a White House family supper.... 

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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2012, 10:19:10 PM »
NEW YORK TIMES:

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September 2, 2012
The Competitor in ChiefBy JODI KANTOR
As Election Day approaches, President Obama is sharing a few important things about himself. He has mentioned more than once in recent weeks that he cooks “a really mean chili.” He has impressive musical pitch, he told an Iowa audience. He is “a surprisingly good pool player,” he informed an interviewer — not to mention (though he does) a doodler of unusual skill.

All in all, he joked at a recent New York fund-raiser with several famous basketball players in attendance, “it is very rare that I come to an event where I’m like the fifth or sixth most interesting person.”

Four years ago, Barack Obama seemed as if he might be a deliberate professor of a leader, maybe with a touch of Hawaiian mellowness. He has also turned out to be a voraciously competitive perfectionist. Aides and friends say so in interviews, but Mr. Obama’s own words of praise and derision say it best: he is a perpetually aspiring overachiever, often grading himself and others with report-card terms like “outstanding” or “remedial course” (as in: Republicans need one).

As he faces off with Mitt Romney, the Republican presidential nominee, Mr. Obama’s will to win — and fear of losing — is in overdrive. He is cramming for debates against an opponent he has called “ineffective,” raising money at a frantic pace to narrow the gap with Mr. Romney and embracing the do-anything-it-takes tactics of an increasingly contentious campaign.

Even by the standards of the political world, Mr. Obama’s obsession with virtuosity and proving himself the best are remarkable, those close to him say. (Critics call it arrogance.) More than a tic, friends and aides say, it is a core part of his worldview, formed as an outsider child who grew up to defy others’ views of the limits of his abilities. When he speaks to students, he almost always emphasizes living up to their potential.

“He has a general philosophy that whatever he does, he’s going to do the very best he can do,” Marty Nesbitt, a close friend, said in an interview.

Mr. Obama’s aides point to the seriousness he brings to the tasks of the presidency — how he virtually never shows up for a meeting unprepared, say, or how he quickly synthesizes complicated material. When Mr. Obama was derided as an insufferable overachiever in an early political race, some of his friends were infuriated; to them, he was revising negative preconceptions of what a black man could achieve.

But even those loyal to Mr. Obama say that his quest for excellence can bleed into cockiness and that he tends to overestimate his capabilities. The cloistered nature of the White House amplifies those tendencies, said Matthew Dowd, a former adviser to President George W. Bush, adding that the same thing happened to his former boss. “There’s a reinforcing quality,” he said, a tendency for presidents to think, I’m the best at this.

And though Mr. Obama craves high grades from the electorate and from history, he is in a virtual dead heat with Mr. Romney in national polls, the political equivalent of school progress reports.

For someone dealing with the world’s weightiest matters, Mr. Obama spends surprising energy perfecting even less consequential pursuits. He has played golf 104 times since becoming president, according to Mark Knoller of CBS News, who monitors his outings, and he asks superior players for tips that have helped lower his scores. He decompresses with card games on Air Force One, but players who do not concentrate risk a reprimand (“You’re not playing, you’re just gambling,” he once told Arun Chaudhary, his former videographer).

His idea of birthday relaxation is competing in an Olympic-style athletic tournament with friends, keeping close score. The 2009 version ended with a bowling event. Guess who won, despite his history of embarrassingly low scores? The president, it turned out, had been practicing in the White House alley.

When he reads a book to children at the annual White House Easter Egg Roll, Mr. Obama seems incapable of just flipping open a volume and reading. In 2010, he began by announcing that he would perform “the best rendition ever” of “Green Eggs and Ham,” ripping into his Sam-I-Ams with unusual conviction. Two years later at the same event, he read “Where the Wild Things Are” with even more animation, roooooaring his terrible roar and gnaaaaashing his terrible teeth. By the time he got to the wild rumpus, he was howling so loudly that Bo, the first dog, joined in.

“He’s shooting for a Tony,” Mr. Chaudhary joked. (He has already won a Grammy, in 2006, for his reading of his memoir, “Dreams From My Father” — not because he was a natural, said Brian Smith, the producer, but because he paused so many times to polish his performance.)

Asked if there was anything at which the president allowed himself to just flat-out fail, Mr. Nesbitt gave a long pause. “If he picks up something new, at first he’s not good, but he’ll work until he gets better,” he said.

Mr. Obama’s fixation on prowess can get him into trouble. Not everyone wants to be graded by him, certainly not Republicans. Mr. Dowd, the former Bush adviser, said he admired Mr. Obama, but added, “Nobody likes to be in the room with someone who thinks they’re the smartest person in the room.”

Even some Democrats in Washington say they have been irritated by his tips on topics ranging from the best way to shake hands on the trail (really look voters in the eye, he has instructed) to writing well (“You have to think three or four sentences ahead,” he told one reluctant pupil).

For another, he may not always be as good at everything as he thinks, including politics. While Mr. Obama has given himself high grades for his tenure in the White House — including a “solid B-plus” for his first year — many voters don’t agree, citing everything from his handling of the economy to his unfulfilled pledge that he would be able to unite Washington to his claim that he would achieve Israeli-Palestinian peace. 

Those were not the only times Mr. Obama may have overestimated himself: he has also had a habit of warning new hires that he would be able to do their jobs better than they could.

“I think that I’m a better speechwriter than my speechwriters,” Mr. Obama told Patrick Gaspard, his political director, at the start of the 2008 campaign, according to The New Yorker. “I know more about policies on any particular issue than my policy directors. And I’ll tell you right now that I’m going to think I’m a better political director than my political director.”

Though he never ran a large organization before becoming president, he initially dismissed internal concerns about management and ended up with a factionalized White House and a fuzzier decision-making process than many top aides wanted.

Now Mr. Obama is in the climactic contest of his career, about to receive the ultimate judgment on his performance from the American people. It is a moment, aides say, he has been craving: during some of the darker days of his tenure, he told them that he wanted the country to evaluate him not in isolation, but in contrast to the Republican alternative. The tough, often successful attacks from the right have hardened and fueled him, aides say, driving him to prove that “we’re right and we’re better,” as one ally put it.

In 2008, he said he wanted to change the nature of politics and keep governing separate from campaigning; since then, he has overhauled his White House to prepare for the re-election bid and has run tit-for-tat negative ads, some of which, like some run by his opponent, have been criticized by media truth squads for inaccuracies.

He offers his share of verbal jabs at his rival, too.

As far back as 2008, Mr. Obama’s assessment of Mr. Romney was scathing. On the day Mr. Romney dropped out of that presidential race, Mr. Obama told reporters that the former governor was a weak candidate who made “poorly thought out” comments (the compulsive grader again). He savored Mr. Romney’s stumbles in the Republican primaries this time around, an adviser said, professing wonder that it took him so long to lock up the nomination.

This February, in an otherwise placid meeting with Democratic governors — routine policy questions, routine presidential replies — Gov. Brian Schweitzer of Montana asked Mr. Obama if he had what it took to win the 2012 race.

For a moment Mr. Obama looked annoyed, a White House aide said, as if he thought Mr. Schweitzer was underestimating him. Then he came alive. “Holy mackerel, he lit up,” Mr. Schweitzer said in an interview. “It was like a light switch coming on.”

No matter what moves Mr. Romney made, the president said, he and his team were going to cut him off and block him at every turn. “We’re the Miami Heat, and he’s Jeremy Lin,” Mr. Obama said, according to the aide.

Since then, Mr. Obama has been working at a furious pace, headlining three times as many fund-raisers as George W. Bush did during his 2004 re-election campaign, according to Mr. Knoller.

When local campaign staff members ask him what they need to do better, he talks about himself instead. “I need to be working harder,” he recently told one state-level aide.

He recently began preparing for the presidential debates, reading up on Mr. Romney and his positions. One danger is that he could sound grudging or smug by indulging in his habit of scoring others (as in, “You’re likable enough, Hillary,” one of his worst debate moments from 2008). As he slashes into Mr. Romney’s arguments, he sometimes cannot help letting crowds know what he thinks of his rival’s political skills.

“When a woman right here in Iowa shared the story of her financial struggles, he gave her an answer out of an economics textbook,” he said about Mr. Romney in May, his tone incredulous.

Though Mr. Obama quizzes his team on all aspects of the campaign, he is concentrating most on the rhetorical challenge of making a case for a second term. He has worked on making his stump speech tighter, less defensive and more forward-looking in recent months, and he is still testing and discarding lines. “That’s the meat of the campaign, that’s where his focus lies,” said David Axelrod, his chief strategist.

Not only do the White House, the Supreme Court and a budgetary crisis hang in the balance, but so does a national judgment on whether Mr. Obama’s agenda was a good idea in the first place. So perhaps it is not surprising that he cites not just his record, but also every other accomplishment he can think of.

Then again, he is just as competitive in private, when there is little or nothing at stake. At one of his farewell meetings for White House interns, Mr. Obama dispensed some life advice.

“When you all have kids, it’s important to let them win,” he said with a smile. “Until they’re a year old. Then start winning.”

Kitty Bennett contributed research.


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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #6 on: September 05, 2012, 06:05:02 AM »
He's the first black president and he wants to be alive when he leaves office.

black people are kidding themselves and, frankly a bit stupid, if they thought he was going to behave in any other way than he has.

this is the real world, not a movie.

Agreed.

This country was never going to elect a  Jim Brown type as President.

Jim Brown couldn't even have gotten nominated.

I would have thought that was pretty damn self evident.

Had Obama gotten Joe Wilson frogmarched on national tv, White folks of the cracker persuasion (and not just them either)  would have frankly gone berserk.

Violently so.

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Re: Man Up, Mr. President: D.L. Hughley on Obama’s Bullies
« Reply #7 on: September 05, 2012, 12:06:30 PM »
I don't think it was stupid that anyone (regardless of ethnicity or background) should have behaved any different from any other position.  I expect anyone in that position to have extremely high standards.

It was something in First Lady Michelle Obama said in her speech at the Democratic National Convention last night that said it all,

"Becoming president doesn't change you.  It reveals who you are."

Everything she said in her speech was correct.


We now know who has historically abused being a public servant in the most powerful office in the United States.

We now know who hasn't abused the position.  We also now know who will abuse this position.