The people who want Wolverine/Storm are probably not BP readers, but readers of the X-Titles, and thus living in their own little myopic world. X-Fans tend to be like that. The people who are shouting for Storm/Forge are just stuck in the eighties. I mean seriously, that's old news.
I think it's highly unlikely that anyone will split Storm and BP up. The Wolverine/Storm pairing was very teneuous and hadn't really had time to "stick", and fans will get over it eventually (and seriously, if they tried to expand that out of whatever x-title it was going on in to the x-universe at large, Wolvie fans would hit the roof -- they'd never accept Wolverine settling down, he's just not the marriagable type).
It's more likely that Storm will simply dissappear from the X-universe, and will become a part of the Black Panther mythos, which could be considered a subset of the Avengers mythos or the Fantastic Four mythos (more the former, less the later). She never really fit in with the rest of the x-universe -- the whole African goddess angle never really blended well with the more sci-fi tone of X-Men, and most writers never knew what to do with her, which lead to the impression that she lacks personality. Or they did weird things like have her go punk (does anyone actually understand what the heck that was about?).
I haven't been reading BP, but I've seen a bunch of scans of the issues leading up to the wedding, and Hudlin's Storm finally doesn't seem like she's in the wrong comic. It still seems a bit gimmicky (a longer engagement would have made it seem less like an attempt to boost sales), but it is a good pairing and has staying power. I expect it will last for sometime, unless some later writer decides to kill Storm off to "motivate" BP (don't let John Byrne anywhere near the title!).