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Mr. Wrong
« on: November 20, 2012, 11:22:09 pm »
I have a question; If you have a "friend" that you reconnected with mentally and physically after 20+ years and it felt as though there had never been any separation, is it really a man of honor when feelings are that strong between you, but lives with someone else, has grown children by that someone else,and now springs "oh by the way I am being pressured to say I do? Was I a fool or what? I know the answer and yes, I am wiping the whole dozen of eggs off my face. I just wanted you guys opinion. How can a man have his heart in both places or is one the heart and one something else? How can one get so blinded(me) by the bullsh*t? Ugh. Give me some signs brothers, of what not to fall for next time? :( :-[ :'( >:(

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2012, 08:44:42 am »
That link is odd. Is this really you, sherelled?
"Seek first to understand, then to be understood."
"Be hard on systems, but soft on people."

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #2 on: November 21, 2012, 09:06:30 am »
That link is odd. Is this really you, sherelled?
Yep.  And a couple of the new posters are wierd as well.

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #3 on: November 21, 2012, 09:16:39 am »
okay not sure what I linked but it was suppose to be Mary J. in love with Mr. Wrong. and yes it is me SherelleD in pain but surviving

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #4 on: November 21, 2012, 09:30:19 am »
I should have linked if I knew what I was doing the song by the GAP band called "You Dropped A Bomb On Me"  ;D

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #5 on: November 21, 2012, 09:42:19 am »
Just making sure your account didn't get body snatched.
This too shall pass...

Here's your songs:


"Seek first to understand, then to be understood."
"Be hard on systems, but soft on people."

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2012, 10:13:53 am »
Thank you Metcalf....you put a smile on my face. :)

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #7 on: November 21, 2012, 03:59:25 pm »
Thank you Metcalf....you put a smile on my face. :)

^^^He's good at that.
Methinks, in general, the HEFfas are a good bunch'a guys and would never, ever, commit a dastardly deed such as you've described. 

Give thanks that you learned the truth and can get on about the business of healing.  My condolences to the sistah that remains clueless.

"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." --Aristotle, Greek philosopher

Доверяй, но проверяй

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Re: Mr. Wrong
« Reply #8 on: November 21, 2012, 10:47:46 pm »
All of you have given me an inkling of what real men do and that is support a sistah going through it. Thanks a bunch. Healing has begun. Whew! what a deep wound it is. But hey this time next year I will look back and SMH and thank God literally for getting me through a tough one. I would hope there aren't many out there that would do such a dastardly thing. I still have faith. :)