Actually, it was implied that Rogue was raped while a prisoner in Genosha. Ms. Marvel's was raped by the villain named Marcus - she was brainwashed into bearing him a new body. Kevin Smith retconned the Black Cat's history to reveal she was raped in college. Before X-Men: Genesis it was believed the Sh'iar despot, D'Ken, raped the mother of Cyclops and Havok. Psylocke was almost raped by the Kaptain Briton of Earth-794.
Rogue couldn't
give it to Gambit no matter how hard she tried to. Gambit
wanted it desperately and so did Rogue. Whenever they tried to make love together, Rogue's power would begin to drain the lifeforce from Gambit resulting in agonizing sexual frustration for them both. Now, if Rogue couldn't give it to the man she loves more than anyone else because of the curse that is her power,
how is a human, mutant-hating Genoshan going to take from her what she couldn't give willingly to Gambit? I believe it is safe to assume that Rogue wasn't ever raped by anyone, implied or otherwise.
Ms Marvel was abducted by this "Marcus" and kept prisoner in his "reality". During which time, Ms Marvel was subjected to brainwashing and sensual seduction. Marcus didn't take Ms Marvel until she herself believed herself to be "willing" to be taken. When he had impregnated her with himself, Ms Marvel then was made to forget the entire incident. When her rapid pregnancy and delivery of the "child" took place, no one was more mystified than Ms Marvel herself. When she finally remembered what had transpired and Marcus decided that he had to return to his "reality" because his presence in the "616 reality" was creating incredible havoc, Ms Marvel willingly...WILLINGLY...decided to accompany Marcus back to his "reality". I repeat, Ms Marvel WILLINGLY RETURNED WITH MARCUS TO HIS REALITY. Didn't she?

Ms Marvel was abducted and brainwashed, but unlike Ramonda, Ms Marvel was NOT RAPED. Ms Marvel was romanced and seduced. When T'Challa finally found his mother and was in the process of rescuing her from Anton Pretorious, that white racist rapist had the audacity to tell her once again that he loved her and asked her to please stay with him. Ramonda's reply was a wicked right cross delivered squarely to his white racist, rapist jawbone. You see? Ms Marvel, the abducted, romanced and seduced woman willingly decided to return to the "reality" of the man who had done those things to her. Ramonda would never have made the same decision as did Ms Marvel because RAMONDA WAS RAPED and Ms Marvel was not.
I'm not aware of the "retconned" story about the Black Cat. I never got into her character and when I began to lose interest in Spider-Man, the Black Cat became a non-entity to me. In fact, I only remembered her recently through this current run of the Panther when Luke Cage stated that he'd "had" the Black Cat on a sofa that was destroyed during his and T'Challa's battle with the ninjas. Psylocke's "almost" rape in no way compares to the horrific ordeal suffered by Ramonda.
Now
Toya ...
Toya,
Toya,
Toya 
...not "Tora! Tora! Tora!" for those of you who might have been wondering.
Toya, wherever did you get the idea that I disliked romantic pairings between white men and black women (or women of color) and was "crazy" about romantic pairings featuring black men and white women?

I merely mentioned that Marvel has had more than a few such "white male/black female" pairings and not as many of the other type. I was indifferent to Namor's romantic pursuit of the young black female during the so-called racist John Byrne's run. I didn't have a fit when I saw Danny Rand kissing and romancing Misty Knight. I didn't flip my wig when I discovered the strange relationship Kraven the Hunter had with the Haitian beauty "Calypso". Did I have anything untoward to say about that "Tom Terrific" guy - I've forgotten his name, but you are a big fan of his I assume. He is the guy who lives on the exotic island, is married to a black woman and has a bi-racial daughter with her who aids in his crimefighting activities. I didn't bust any chops about that

What sparked my ire was the response of the "RoLo" and Forge factions who claimed that those two losers had a stronger claim to Ororo in the romance department than did T'Challa. When "those fans" resorted to the "Marvel is only marrying T'Challa to Ororo because they are both black" bullshiznit, I was too through with those fools. White Reed Richards is married to white Sue Storm. White Hank Pym is/was married to Janet Van Dyne. White male characters have romanced white female characters since "who shot JR" and the whiny fanguy/fangal out there didn't utter a peep.
T'Challa's romance with Monica Lynne, Luke Cage's romance with Claire Temple and the physical attraction and dating that took place between Hector Ayala (White Tiger I) and Peter Parker friend, Gloria Grant were laudable moves by Marvel. I was more into the action then, as I am now, but I think they were making an attempt to diversify even back then. I wasn't turning flip flops about John Stewart's love affair with Shayera Hol in the Justice League television show...by the way, I think the writer of DC's JLA may already be laying the groundwork for a possible relationship between Hawkgirl and Black Lightning

.... but no, Toya. I wasn't shouting exclamations of joy from the rooftops when Luke Cage married Jessica Jones. I am a "come lately" to that relationship. The thing I liked most about their wedding issue was the artwork by Oliver Coipel. If I had my way, I'd grant Tandy Bowen her wish to be a "normal teenager" and send her on her merry way. I would then give her power to a black female teenager who would then become the new Dagger and Cloak's new partner.