from MARIE CLAIRE:
Blow Him Away in Bed: Oral Sex Tips
Think you know all the tricks to operate his joystick? Think again! Here's how to use your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways youíve never imagined.
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Donít get us wrong: Men love all oral sex. If youíre down there, heís in heaven, period. Still, donít you want to blow past his expectations and introduce him to levels of bliss far beyond what he dared to dream could exist? Totally doable ó just take a tip or two from this flipbook, which will get you using your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways youíve never imagined (nor has he, which is really saying something). Ladies, prepare to plaster a perma-grin on his face and yours.
Maintain a little eye contact
Believe it or not, men can get a little lonely up there. So, make sure to glance up and hold his gaze every once in awhile. Add a devilish gleam in your eye, and heíll be in heaven.
Lend a helping hand
Letís face it, your mouth can only cover so much ground (the average penis is five to six inches, while the average mouth is only two to three inches ó you do the math). Thatís why the very best oral sex usually incorporates some hands-on action to pick up the slack. So, feel free to mix-and-match the moves in this chapter with those in chapter 11. Or make an O with your hand, place it on your lips, and move them in tandem. This will create the illusion that youíre taking him all in while in reality itís more like three-fifths. Pretty good trick, huh?
Know the science of suction
Ever wonder why theyíre called blow jobs when youíre actually doing the exact opposite ó sucking? Anyway, for anyone who canít quite figure out how to do it, suction is created by placing the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth then sliding it backward to create a vacuum. Now, we all know suctionís a crucial ingredient to oral sex, but keep in mind, we can only really suck on the first inch and a half. Take in any more, and your tongue must drop to accommodate it, nullifying those Hoover-esque effects. Donít worry, though ó many men find too much suction a turnoff. To find out how much he likes, ask him to suck on your fingers with the intensity heíd like you to use down yonder. Then fine-tune your technique accordingly.
Prep the area so it's palatable
Granted, there are plenty of reasons to not like giving oral sex. That doesnít mean you just have to sit there and suffer, since there are plenty of ways to circumvent these unsavory aspects. For example, pounce right after heís taken a shower. Ask him to trim his pubic hair, or offer to do it yourself. If youíre worried about your gag reflex, you can prevent this by making sure youíre in control of the motion, not him. And if swallowing isnít up your alley, have him stage his release on your chest, which is nice eye candy for him and wonít muck up your hair.
Chances are, youíre already using your tongue in all sorts of tantalizing ways down below. But hereís one thing you probably havenít considered: using the underside of your tongue instead. Its soft, silky texture will feel especially sublime on the frenulum ó a super-sensitive spot located below the head of his penis in the center of the underside of the coronal ridge. Hereís what to do: Holding the base of his penis and resting your chin on the underside of his shaft for stability, place the underside of your tongue on this sweet spot and quickly swipe it from side to side like a windshield wiper. Precise as surgery and yet very potent, this move is a great way to kick things off.